Yes absolutely! that’s a great decision. Be a girl, be a role model. Divorce him. Be happy.
You meet another guy after 2 months. He is extremely smart, earns double than what you earn. You marry him, have a great start to your new life. A year passes by and he thinks you are dumb. He demotivates you everyday. He is pissed of with your IQ and not being so smart. He makes fun of your job. He wants you to quit your job. You don’t want to be dependant on him and problem begins.
He files a divorce and congratulations, you just got your second divorce.
You walk away with your head high. You are a bold woman. You got a job and you earn. You show him your middle finger and move away.
A few months pass by and you are very clear with your terms and conditions this time. You don’t want to marry someone who is much more smarter than you & earns more than you. Little difficult to find one.
Wow, you just found the right guy and decided to marry him. He earns good, matches all your conditions perfectly. Your dream Husband. Congratulations you are conceived now. You are happy about the way life is going. Suddenly he is diagnosed with cancer. You don’t want your kid to be with a cancer patient. You don’t want to go through all the medication and chemo with him. You apply for a divorce. You are doing it for your kid. You are making the same mistake again.
Wow.. You just got your first baby. You think you will remain single and single mom for your kid.
Reality strikes you like a thunder. You cannot take care of your kid and work together. Work life balance is a dream. You decide to marry someone again. Your T&C increases and the probability of finding someone is way too less. But you are stubborn. Lot of dates. Lot of time is spent. But no luck, you are disappointed
After a huge struggle, you find a guy who is healthy, who earns more than you, who is not smarter than you, who can also take care of your kid. Wow, thank God. You found someone. You are getting married for 4th time. You two make an extra-ordinary couple. He wants to have a kid and you both have a kid. Congratulations for your second kid. :)
Slowly you can see he is playing favourites among your kids. He hugs, loves, buy toys, spends time and he does everything only for the second kid. First kid feels lonely. This gets bad each and every day. Your first kid feels that step dad doesn’t love him and feels depressed. He is a great dad but a poor step dad.
Everyday the discussion continues and turns into a fight. He is completely pissed off. You are pissed off and you cry almost every day. You want to treat both your kids equally.
Fourth divorce. Now you are pretty much good about the process. Your lawyer even gives you discounts for divorce. You turn 35 and crossed 4 un-successful marriages. Your first kid becomes a teenager and turns extremely aggressive.
You want to marry again. Not for money, not for society, but for yourself and your kids. It doesn't matter if he earns less than you. All you need is someone who can share your responsibilities, time, and make you and your kids feel better
Unfortunately you can't find someone. Your first kid turns 18 and flies away from you due to all the things he went through.
You have your second kid with you not knowing what to do next. You are tired, couldn’t balance your work and personal life. You cannot take care of your second kid, you cannot take care of yourself now.
You lost all your beauty, you are lonely, all you have is a good job, monthly salary and good money. You are tired, you just want someone to spend some time with.
You open scial media and scroll through it to see a question “How your life changed when your wife left you for money”. You tap the ”Read More” and all your life flashes in your mind when the answer is loading.
You see the answer, it was written by your first husband whom you divorced for not earning more than you. He is happy with his wife now. He has a couple of kids, and you read about his success story on how happy his life is. Though he is not a millionaire or billionaire, he is earning very good. He thanks his second wife for standing beside him when he was so low.
Your eyes become wet. Tears roll down and fall down on your mobile screen which upvotes the answer. Your second kid asks you the reason and you realize something, which cannot be expressed in words.
You think you cannot revert that mistake now. It’s too late.
I don’t say that women can’t live without men. They can absolutely do that. I know a lot of single mom who did wonders in their life. But not Divorcing for money. They had different and justifiable reasons.
Always remember, when Karma strikes back, no one can take that hit. It will blow you down. You can’t even stand after getting hit by Karma.
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